You are Good Enough

Why Us Girls Don't Think

We Are Good Enough  

Wouldn't we all like to know the truth to why girls think they are not good enough...? Guys, media, fitness, people, and so much more. It is beyond sad to see where this world has come. The message I want to come across to you girls is you are good enough! Whether it is for a job, a guy, the media, or what ever else is running through your head, do not let someone else define who you are. Do not let social media or someone else make you feel that you are a waste. I know this is a lot easier said then done, trust me. I have been in this position more times then I can count. Just keep telling yourself, "you are enough." 

~  One of the main reasons girls don't feel like they are good enough, is because of guys. So many girls rely on a guy to make them happy, or to give them the confidence booster they need. (I personally have struggled with this through out my life.) Ladies, you shouldn't have to send a promiscuous message or photo to catch his attention. If this is what it seems like he is going to require for you to be with him, he is NOT the right guy. I promise. For someone to ignore you or make you feel bad by being yourself, it is not worth it. You should not have to do things that make you feel uncomfortable to make someone else happy. I see girls who go after guys who time after time push them away because they are not willing to break their morals. He makes her feel worthless, or that she is not good enough because he doesn't want her for who she is. I can promise you ladies, not all guys are like this. It might take some time and awhile to find him, but be patient. Don't give into how you feel or believe what you should do to get someones attention. You will regret it. 

~ The Media: Girls these days are so invested in social media. Following all of the newest fashion, fitness models, aspiring women, and so much more. Time will tell how long it will take these posts to make you feel worse about yourself than you already do. We get so caught up in our imagination of how good those models look and why we can't. I myself am guilty of thinking this and creating bad comments about myself in my head. Be yourself.Do not let social media define who you are or who you should be. 

~ Girls: we need to stop judging each other and become encouraging to one another. We all can come forward and agree that we all at one point in our life, have said a mean comment or judged another girl. It can be a natural habit, but we need to learn how to hold those comments back and accept everyone. We do not know everyones past, present, or current state of mind.


I know all of this is easier said than done, but if we all would worry less about what others think, and work on being ourselves, we would all be much happier. Remain confident in yourself, do not let others define who you are, and keep your head up! You have the power of deciding who you are and who you will become. ❤️